Ethics from a point are only individual based as his/her consciousness dictates what is right and what is wrong. Ethics and power of the soul (real power) are intertwined as ethics are born by the journey of getting and having power, power is structured on the expanded ethics. It is an active principle not a passive one and mostly one cannot be taught an ethic but develop it.

Let's have the word power now as the ability to dictate not only your reality as you wish but others life too.To desire as you act on it will have at least two realities either clashing or sympathize together. Becoming a wise one with the truth your reality will surpass and destroy false ones, false subjective truths of others.

How will you perceive love and what love is to you will never be the same for the other one. Not only two different realities from themselves but different souls and different principles. It is an individual aspect and also a shared one, but as the reflection of the sun in the ocean does not reflect its depths and treasures it is only a choice and ability of one to the other to what shared aspect can be.

It is ethic for you to attract someone even if it shows no attraction for you? As long as you are in the position to assume responsibility of the other being in that regard it is not only ethic but brave and a blessing to the other. This is a matter of freedom, from which you can take from another, limit that being for yourself, or give freedom to the other trough yourself. It should be thought as a power of creation that you allow yourself to produce into the other being. Most zevists do not have that self position towards the world as they do not yet know who they are truly, but to know another one on that level. That's why love as butterflies is only a potential in both principles and both parties involved to discover both and from which of course you are allowed to partake and develop as an active and passive reality for both of you.

Love is not what you all think it is. Love as an energy, its intensity and value are given by the individual. Think of it as an energy produced by your soul that which you associate with a person, consciously but more unconscious. The one who you love is chosen by you and sometimes that one had triggering factor or factors. The process of that produced energy was triggered. Mostly by past lives and mind karma, current desires, planets. It is a complex phenomenon as it is a principle of completion of your being, he who gives, she who receives. Male and females are not the same, these two dualities of life cannot exist without one another . Females, for the male world you are the center of the universe. Males, for the female world you are the matter of the universe. It is both responsibility to join each other.

Speaking of love - Attachment is a consequence of love, attachment is not love itself. Self proving and ego boost from the loved one is not love, it is a consequence of it. Every aspect of human interactions that can build and fire your love are naively thought to be "love" as they are individually existent in most relationships but not as a whole of feelings and realities.

Love should be viewed in my opinion at the first bases only a potential. It is a potential for both parties involved, potential of freedom and power. It is a creation potential as well a destruction one. One who can not handle it it will have a destroying force that she/he will justify it conscious as a consequence of love..or as a consequence of the other one. Love is strongly an energy and necessity based on your soul capacity, not only that but also a human instinct from which sex and pleasure takes a more conscious form to itself that communicates to yourself.

You all should make from love and the other one a sacrilege, a life mission of perfection and a peak of shared realities. Put that energy to work for your both desired reality. Give freedom to the other and accept the uniqueness of that being that which you cannot control or have as a possession but only guide it by yourself and happily take pleasure from it as well as the other does from you. Being true to yourself destroys any false pathways from which you or the other one may regret in the future, and this truth is only producing other truths in others..which is the only thing as a being you seek. The real pleasure, real love, real everything. False seekers get what they seek.

I can expand more my points of view if necessary and required. Love is playful but not to be played with, as it is extremely dangerous to guide it wrong.
A piece of advice I received from Gods some 7 months ago: "You can not and must not allow endings to eliminate your future."